I had never heard of and did not know of Debbie Silver. I came to find out very quickly that she had
presented in Unionville School District prior to 2004, when I started in the
district. She was an engaging, enthusiastic
presenter. Debbie Silver’s sessions were
full of practical and usable ideas for not only for my classroom, but also to
apply in my own life with my children. She
conveyed one of the simplest principles; encourage children on Effort and
Choices. Encouraging children based on things
they can control rather than those things they cannot control. Doing so will create more intrinsically
motivated individuals and learners. Most
people complement and encourage by telling children that they are so
smart. I had never thought of it this
way. Something so simple that makes a
tremendous difference. So, when you
think about encouraging your students or your own children, remember praise
them for their hard work and effort. This
encouragement will create individuals who are more motivated; will take on more
challenges and risks. These individuals
will persevere and not get frustrated when they are unable to figure something
out right away. It creates a motivation
to try harder and put forth more effort.
It is much more rewarding when you work hard for something. The simplest principal can make a tremendous
difference in a child’s life. One being of
self-efficacy and perseverance
I was struck by the importance of creating a positive environment for my students. One presenter showed a picture of a woman who had a fearful expression on her face. Most of the teachers in the room said she looked afraid; however, the presenter said 8/10 middle school students thought the teacher was angry. We need to be careful how we express ourselves in front of our students, knowing that they misread some of our thoughts.
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